The 5 Lessons A Millionaire Taught Me for Women by Richard Paul Evans
I read this book a couple of days ago. Most of the advice in this book can easily be found distilled in various blog posts on the Internet and in numerous other finance books, but the book is small, the writing is clear, and steps are easy to follow.
Your retirement is more important than your daughter’s prom dress
What I remember the most from the book is the author’s insistence on never sacrificing your needs for other people’s wants, no matter who those people are. According to the author, women are especially bad at this. The author’s example involved a grandmother who was disappointed with her (good for nothing) son; however, she wasn’t willing to let her grandchildren suffer and so she let them rob her of her retirement.
The author brings up an excellent point: what would you do if you found out that somebody were stealing the social security payments of a sixty-year-old lady to puchase motorbikes and concert tickets? Wouldn’t you agree that he or she was disgusting and moral-less? Yet, many people allow their family to do exactly that. What kind of lessons are you teaching your children if you give preference to their $1000 prom dress instead of your retirement?
Seeing your savings grow
An interesting advice given by the author is purchasing silver when you’re starting out. The reason for this might surprise you: buying silver allows you to watch your net worth grow, which provides powerful psychological boost. To many people, it’s much harder to visualize $10,000 in a bank account than a jar full of silver coins. Of course, silver also provides the added benefit of not being easily spendable, unlike $3,000 in your emergency fund, which is just one to two clicks away.
The Lessons
If you have even passing understanding of personal finances, you can get 90% of the book’s value by simply reading the table of contents:
Lesson 1: Decide to be wealthy
In which Mr. Evans tells you to commit to a goal. Crystal-clear goals are easily the most important first step in any accomplishment, including financial freedom.
Lesson 2: Take responsibility for your money
In which Mr. Evans talks about budgeting: how much money do you have right now (starting position), what are your sources of income (the more the better), where is the money going (minimize this, of course), and, finally, how much of your money is working for you (as opposed to other people)?
Lesson 3: Keep a portion of everything you earn
In which Mr. Evans tells you to save some portion of everything you earn, no matter how little you earn. Habits are built over time. Everybody can and should save what they can. If you are making $30K a year, you might not be able to save $1K a month but can you save $100? $50? $25?
Lesson 4: Win in the margins
There are two main ideas presented in this lesson: earn more and spend less, and altering your mindset to value financial freedom over materialism. Mr. Evans also stresses the importance of protecting your nest egg through good insurance.
Lesson 5: Giving back
The more you give, the more you get back.
Overall, I liked the book. It was fun to read and presented some material in a new way.
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